You missed it….I hope YOU are HAPPY.

This note was posted to www.divorce360.com by d360 member eclectic. I really thinks it captures the heartache, pain, suffering and seriousness of divorce.

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You missed it….I hope YOU are HAPPY.

My X said his affairs were a result of him not being “happy”. HE wants HIM to be happy.

So……
Last night we built a tent…..and you missed it.
Last night we had ice cream and many silly stories….and you missed it.
Last night our son had his first babysitting job, he got paid, he was SO excited….and you missed it.
Last night the kids had their fist volunteer night at the humane society….and you missed it.
And that is just last night.

So much has happened in the last year….
Bedtime kisses
Homework projects
Football
Softball
Smiles
Hugs
Broken hearts
Prom
Camping
Swim
Drivers license
First attempts at water skiing
First attempts at driving a boat
GoKarts
Fishing
Catching Frogs
Waterparks
Biking
Kids tears
Kids pain
Kids anger
Illness
…..and you have missed it all, I sure hope YOU are finally HAPPY.

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