Five Tips to Help You No Matter What Side of the Conversation You're On
By TRISH ROBB
When you have decided to end your marriage, you must give serious thought to the manner in which you tell your spouse. Presumably you want to find a middle ground between slipping away silently in the dead of night, and booking the Wednesday slot on Maury Povich to make a surprise announcement. This conversation will possibly set the tone for the whole divorce process, so if you can lessen the hurt and anger here, it will help you later.
1. Where and when.
Your spouse should be the first to know you want a divorce. If you have already told friends or relatives, there is always a chance your spouse will hear about your intentions from someone else first, which will only amplify the hurt and resentment. Consider whether he or she would respond better to your announcement in private, at home, or in a public place like a restaurant or park. If your fear a violent reaction, it might be wise not to be alone with your spouse, for example. If your fear he or she will be self-destructive, you may wish to seek the help of a professional for advice ahead of time.
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